Women Men Adore – How to Talk to a Shy Guy – Conversation Tips in Dating (March 16, 2010 )

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If you are a girl who starts to like a shy guy but doesn’t know how to approach him, this article is meant for you. Though a shy guy appears hard to talk to, don’t forget that he is still a guy behind his silence. You just have to break his wall of silence and find out what is really underneath it.

How to talk to a shy guy starts with casually approaching him by initiating a small conversation. The topic can range from simple things like the weather or what’s on the news. If he responds to a small talk, try doing it few times in a week. Through this, you will establish a good bond with him and he will start to break that wall for you. From small talks, you can move into topics that are something personal like about each other’s families, hobbies or vacation plans. When talking about personal matters, avoid giving clues that you like him. It might drive him away.

However, if your first attempt to approach him didn’t work out, be patient. Remember that shy guys don’t open up easily. Patience and perseverance are your best weapons in making shy guys talk.

Asking questions that are not answerable with a yes or no is also an effective tip on how to talk to a shy guy. When talking to him, show interest in him as well. And as the conversation progresses, make an effort to make it balance. Do not dominate the conversation by talking too much nor push him to talk more. And when he starts to open up, listen to what he’s saying. You can keep the conversation going by making appropriate responses or asking appropriate questions as follow-up to what he’s talking about. He will surely appreciate it if he knows that you are really listening to him.

The best idea on how to talk to a shy guy is to engage him in a conversation where there are much to talk about like an art gallery or the like. Having a great sense of humor is also a plus to break the ice when the conversation becomes awkward.

Another suggestion on how to talk to a shy guy is by making physical contact like a touch or a pat on his shoulder. But you can only do this after you have already talked for several times and he starts to feel comfortable with you. Do this once and see if he likes it or not. If he seems uncomfortable with it, refrain from doing it until you know he’s already fine with it.

If you want to ask him out, do it in private so he may not feel pressured to agree. If he says yes, make it a simple date. Since he is shy, going to public places is not a good idea. You can suggest a drive-thru dinner and park in a quiet place to eat and talk. But it would be better if he’s the one who asks you out. If you can keep him relaxed while getting close to him, he could do that.

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Taurus men & leo women. Details pls on your relationships. I would like 2 compare your relationships with mine

Taurus/Leo

In many ways the two of you are very similar. You both adore the finer things in life, like dining out, attending cultural activities and interesting parties, and having a beautiful home. Each of you likes that the other is possessive and loyal, for neither of you could tolerate a third party in the background, even in the earliest stages of dating. Yet your needs are quite different: You crave a strong sense of security and frequent displays of affection, whereas your Leo needs attention, applause, and above all, respect. Leo will adore your compliments, and look for a steady supply from you, even if you've been together for years. Your praise helps to reassure Leo that he or she is still number one. Taurus, you aren't always aware you need to do this, which might lead your Leo to wonder if you've fallen out of love! Keep an eye out for this possible miscommunication.

You will adore your Leo's creativity. Many Leos work in the arts, especially in theatre and other performance arts, television, or in advertising as art directors or as graphic designers. You have the know-how to build a successful business enterprise: Taurus are often called in when a fledging business needs a leader who can guide it from the early stages into a more mature stage of expansion. Taurus expect obstacles in life and have the patience to work through them, while Leos are surprised when they hit an obstacle. Use your talent for long term success to make this relationship work. Your expectations are realistic and you have exceptional patience. As a long distance runner (not a sprinter), you feel anything worth doing is worth doing well — the very reason you are not likely to walk away from this relationship after you've hit the first speed bump.

Both of you love material objects, though for slightly different reasons: You love rewarding your senses, while your lover wants outward evidence of success. Your Leo's elegant style has them craving the high life, but you may be concerned about how much this could ultimately cost. Their champagne taste could get tough to support over time. (This is true no matter who is the provider, since, once married, money tends to come out of the same pot.) Taurus says, “Show me the money!” and then promptly banks it. Taurus would rather have money in the bank than on their backs. Leo understands this intellectually, but not emotionally, and will never be completely comfortable with living on a strict budget. The allocation of funds is definitely something to talk about if you two start to get serious.

But there is a bigger concern: You both are fixed in your opinions and are not likely to bend, which could lead to serious gridlock when you disagree. In every relationship, someone has to offer an olive branch! Ideally, it won't be the same person all the time. Consider this the next time you find yourself locked in conflict with your Leo. Know that Leos like to take credit for everything around them, due to their ability to see the big picture. This comes so naturally to them that they don't even realize they're doing it. While this could make you see red, you might also just be inclined to allow your lover this pleasure, simply to keep the peace (Venusruled Taurus likes life harmonious). Realize that your lover is ruled by the Sun center of our solar system, which is why Leos can get so egocentric. Taurus is ruled by Venus, the goddess of love, so you are the more likely partner to find a diplomatic solution. If your Leo lover means a lot to you, look at what options are presented and make suggestions. In many ways, the future of this relationship will depend on your willingness to bring the two of you together, rather than allow Leo's egotism to tear you apart.

It takes a lot to ruffle you, but when you get to the end of your rope — watch out! Neither the Bull nor the Lion are known to be quiet-tempered animals! Your Sun signs are not in harmonious angle to one another, suggesting that when tempers flare, they'll generate scorching heat. The next time firesign Leo and earthsign Taurus try to stare each other down, consider which element is likely to overpower the other. Yours will, Taurus, for you could bury your lover in your earthy sensibilities. You could dump a ton of practicality over Leo's dreams but in so doing you can shut off all Leo's light. Winning should not be the goal, remaining close should. It may be too easy for you to take away his or her spirit, and you may find that although you've won the battle you've lost the war. Don't push your Lion too hard.

Passion will not be lacking when the Lion and the Bull team up in bed! Both of you like to take your time and create lively, lustful lovemaking. Under the sheets you will notice Leo's desire for adoration, so be prepared to lavish time on him or her. It will be time well spent! Leo is very warmhearted and generous — something you will always appreciate. Leo will cherish you always, in his or her own dramatic and flamboyant style. That is the best reason to stay with Leo, in fact — it's so much fun! Life would be so boring without your Leo lover.

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