Are women more selfish than men?
* In elementary school, boys & girls often trade gifts on Valentine's Day. In adolescence & adulthood, Valentine's Day then becomes about “what can the man get for the woman” and what women can expect to get out of men. Often, men either do not get gifts, or at best get something lame like a kiss on the forehead. I even consider sex a lame gift since he's getting that from her anyway.
* Men will spend money on women for dates, gifts, the roof over her head, his car/transporation. And women expect this. Women generally do not pay for dates or gifts for men, even if she makes just as much money or more than him. Many women are parasites on men, but rarely will a man be a parasite on women
* Women almost always win custody of the child, even if the mother is unfit to parent and the father wants the child more.
* Men are always complimenting women on how they look/dress. Women generally do not compliment men on how they look/dress and instead expect to receive compliments from men.
* Many men participate in fundraising for women's health issues like breast & ovarian cancer. Most women do not care about men's health issues like prostate cancer.
* Men hold open doors and chairs for women. Women generally do not hold doors open and at times let the door slam in men's faces (I've witnessed it).
* If a man is interested in a woman, he “makes the first move” and let's her know that he likes her. If a woman is interested in a man, she will not make the first move. Instead, she will pretend she's not interested in him, and manipulate & play games by “dropping hints” instead of being straight-forward. The women like knowing they're “attractive”, and a man approaching her gives her confirmation. However, men also like feeling attractive to a woman, yet, rarely does he get confirmation since even if a woman is attracted to him, she will not show it and still expect him to show his attraction to her.
* Women are always telling men to get in touch with their “emotions”, but men are not allowed to tell women to get in touch with logic & reason.
* Men on the Titanic sacrificed their lives so women could live. Not only would women never do this for men, but women actually have crafted a “list of why women are better than men” on the internet, with one of the mentions bragging about how women got off the Titanic first. Yeah, but it was men that allowed for this to happen. Doesn't make sense to poke fun at the same gender for not having a certain privilege, when that same gender sacrificed themselves to give women that privilege in the first place.
I don't think women are inherently more selfish than men. Meaning, I don't think females are born with a “selfish gene” or anything of the sort. I believe selfishness is socialized in women. When males & females are born, neither male nor female is more or less selfish than the other. But, as time progresses, boys are generally raised to fend for themselves and “tough it out” through hard times, while girls are given everything on a silver platter. And this continues on in to adolescence and adulthood.
According to surveys done with thousands of men, here are the BIG 8 of what men really want women to do and be like.
How to please your man? Is he happy with me? What does he want me to do? These are just some of the questions that constantly plague women. We end up obsessing about it and ultimately jump to the wrong conclusions. This, is what they really want:
1) Guys absolutely love the attention that you splurge on them. Whether you are trying to attract them or have been in a relationship for a long time. Fuss over them and you will be richly rewarded for your effort.
2) Men are really attracted to women that are happy with themselves and how they look. Simple gestures that exert confidence turn them on. Your walk, flicking of your hair, your smile, simple gestures like touching your waste or bum. If you are confident in yourself and show interest in them – they feel special and singled out.
3) Guys love everything feminine about you (but in moderation!). Your perfume, your makeup, your girlie gestures and giggles. Key is to entice and not overpower. Too much can have quite the opposite effect.
4) Men adore it when you show others how you feel about them. Hug them in public, always look for their hand, mention how he makes you laugh and smile. Anything you can do that will “show him off” in front of others. Especially with people he either likes or feel insecure with, which means everybody!
5) Guys love your support. They might never admit to it, but they can rarely make up their minds about anything and is usually open for suggestion and persuasion. Take note of what is going on in his life, ask questions and show that his interests and problems are important to you.
6) Men want to know that sexually they are the absolute ultimate. They do not take kindly to rejection and even though you might not think so, they are concerned about whether they satisfied you or not. Show him, show him, show him and did I mention show him?
7) Guys find it quite a challenge to be serious. If you are playful in your approach it is something that is familiar to him that he can relate to. It eases anything from sex to conversation. Don’t take yourself too serious, play around, it is one of our basic animal instincts.
Although men want to know that they are your moon and stars, they do not want your constant dependence. Having your own interests and hobbies is what makes you endearing, with the added bonus that they can spend some time on theirs.
Adhere to these and you are bound to make your husband, boyfriend or love interest the happiest man alive. And might I add, how they respond and what you get out of it is very rewarding.
I wish I could tell you that this is it though, unfortunately it is only the tip of the iceberg that makes us women the wonderfully intricate beings that we are.
But if you can only implement a few of these, you are off to a rockin start – trust me!
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